Tabious L. Carter "Mr. Stand In Your Greatness"

I hate to admit it. I am actually kind of ashamed to admit that I HATE PEOPLE lol!  I'm just joking!!  I'm sort of joking but I am a naturally a shy and introverted person.  Being in the industry of network martekting and direct sales being afraid to talk to people can hinder your success. I have had to learn to step outside of my comfort zone and actually learn how to make friends.  We all know it's not about what you know but who you know!  In today's Leader of Leaders video I am speaking on several tips that can help you when it comes to networking as an introverted person! Let's be great today! 1 Down! By the way if I could show you how you could earn $50,000 in the next 30 days would you watch a 1 minute video? YES I said $50,000!!! If you want that video  HIT  me up!  Did This Help You? If so, I would greatly appreciate it if you would forward to your friends and share on Facebook or Twitter. Simply click on the buttons ...

Do you have plans for Super Bowl XLIX (50) yet?  This year the Super Bowl is being held at the home of the San Francisco 49ers; the beautiful Levis Stadium in Santa Clara, CA.  If you are anything like me you have no real interest in traveling across the country for the Super Bowl.  Most of us end up going to some last minute Super Bowl cook out at the friend of a friend's house.  The food will be edible at best, your favorite team probably isn't even playing in the game and the only reason you went is because there will of course be free alcohol lol! Let's change from that same old yearly routine and make some memories.  My good friend and frat brother (K...A...Psi til the day I die)  Gary Carter  has asked me to partner with him to promote the  M.D. Ski Express  weekend getaway!   M.D. Ski Express  was founded in the fall of 1983 with the premise to introduce African Americans professionals to the sport of snow skii...

The weekend is almost over but I hope that you are enthused about the upcoming week. If we are friends on social media you have probably seen that I am a basketball referee.  This job was a challenge that I took on a year ago just to stay involved with sports.  I really did not think that being a basketball referee would help me grow as a person and as an entrepreneur.   I never thought about how focused you have to be as a referee until my first game when every basketball Mom in the stands was calling me everything but the son of God lol.  It really is demanding task to manage and control a basketball game.  Much like the life of an entrepreneur it take very thick skin and laser focus to manage your dream!   Let's be great today! 1 Down!  Next time you go to a basketball game take it easy on the referees! If your friends need some rhino skin or focus, I would greatly appreciate it if you would forward to yo...

Why People Fail to Understand Others “Lack of understanding concerning others is s recurrent source of tension in our society.  I once heard an attorney say, “Half of all the controversies and conflicts that arise among people are caused not by differences of opinion or an inability to agree, but by the lack of understanding of one another.” If we could reduce the number of misunderstandings, the courts wouldn’t be as crowded, there would be fewer violent creimes, the divorce rate would go down, and the amount of everyday stress most people experience would drop dramatically.” John C. Maxwell A Short Course in Human Relations The least important word: I The most important word: We The two most important words: Thank you. The three most important words: All is forgiven. The four most important words: What is your opinion? The five most important words: You did a good job! The six most important words: I want to understand you better. ...

Where is your Audience? One of my favorite quotes is "Go where you are celebrated not tolerated".  This holds true when it comes to you marketing on social media.  There are several social media platforms and most entrepreneurs have a Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram accounts.  You have to determine which platform is going to help you produce results! Monitor and Evolve There is only one point in marketing your business and that's to generate leads!  Social media can give you a false impression because you may get a lot of "likes" but if you are not converting those "likes" into leads then your marketing is not working.  Keep track of what gets you leads.  If it doesn't generate leads then it is time to change it.   Share Don't Sell This is a simple yet seldom used concept.  No one likes to be sold.  Share value then allow people to make a decision! "People are in such a hurry to launch their product or business th...

I have had some very entertaining experiences while on my entrepreneurial quest for freedom.  It always amazes me how much you learn about people and their thought process.  Most people don't realize how important mindset is when it comes to being successful not only as an entrepreneur but in your career or in everyday life.  Remember you always get back what you give out! Let's be great today! The couple of experiences I speak about in today's  Leader of Leaders video  reminded me of a fundamental key to wealth and success! Character!!! Your character and how you conduct business speaks volumes.  Did This Help You? If so, I would greatly appreciate it if you would forward to your friends and share on Facebook or Twitter. Simply click on the buttons below! Let's be Great today! 1 Down Email:  Tabious@IamSuperTLC.com PS: If you would like to work with me personally on a side business project  email  me.

We all have become witnesses to a terrible tragedy in Charleston, SC.  It is a scary feeling that a place of worship was attacked is such a viscous way.  I was enraged when I saw the news about this obvious sick person filled with hate walking into a church and taking the lives of 9 innocent people.  I could never imagine losing a loved one in that manner.  I kept thinking about the hurt and the pain everyone in that community must feel right now.  It brought tears to my eyes; when I saw 19 year old Chris Singleton, whose mother was one of the 9 people murdered, standing with his teammates and coaches from the Charleston Southern University baseball team say "I Forgive You". Faith gives you to strength to forgive.  Forgiveness is a powerful feeling not for the person you are forgiving but for yourself.  Let's be great today!  Let's have the Faith of Chris Singleton today! "Love is ALWAYS stronger than hate." Chris Singl...

Wealth Mentality vs Poor Mentality 72% of the wealthy know their credit score vs. 5% of the poor 63% of the wealthy spend less than 1 hour per day on recreational Internet use vs. 26% of the poor 79% of the wealthy believe they are responsible for their financial condition vs. 18% of the poor Rich Habits to Teach Kids Require that children to read one to two educational books a month. Require that children set monthly, annual and 5-year goals. Require children to aerobically exercise 20 – 30 minutes a day. Require that children save at least 25% of their earnings or gifts they receive. "The fact is the poor are poor because they have too many Poverty Habits and too few Rich Habits. Poor parents teach their children the Poverty Habits and wealthy parents teach their children the Rich Habits. We don’t have a wealth gap in this country we have a parent gap. We don’t have income inequality, we have parent inequality."  Thomas Corley Did This H...

Lessons From the Richest Man in Babylon Pay Ourselves First (Start thy purse to fattening) One of the greatest lessons the book has taught is this first lesson. Bansir and Kobbi souhgt the advice of their very wealthy friend Arkad and he tells them a story. Arkad was once a poor scribe who made a deal with a rich man to find out the secret to wealth in exchange for his work on a clay inscription.  The rich man gave him a very valuable advice “I found the road to wealth,” he said, “When I decided that a part of all I earned was mine to keep. And so will you.”   Although this is a very subtle message it is very powerful in accumulating wealth.   We cannot accumulate wealth if we do not save what we earned.  We can do that by paying ourselves first and foremost before we spend any of the money we have earned Make our money work for us.  (Make thy gold multiply) I believe this lesson is about investing our money and letting it work for us. ...

My dapper Grandfather Willard Carter I was pondering on the question; do you know how Poweful Your Name is? I think along the way some people tend to forget that their name carries with it a responsibility not only to themselves but to their family and in some cases close friends.  Your name was given to you by your parents. Take pride and represent your Name!    The Law of the Mirror One of my favorite books is the  15 Invaluable Laws of Growth  by  John C. Maxwell .  Below are a couple of tips to help you take pride in your name. You Must See Value in Yourself to Add Value to Yourself!!!  Stop comparing yourself to others Add value to others Do the Right Thing, Even if it's the Hard Thing Celebrate Small Victories  "Personal development is the belief that you are worth the effort, time, and energy to develop yourself."  Dennis Waitley Did This Help You? If so, I would greatly app...

You have so much to be grateful for if you would take a minute to think about the blessing that happen every day!   We have a 24 hour news cycle that bombards our minds stories of hard times and despair.   It becomes a challenge to remember that if we have breath in our lungs and functioning mental faculties we can achieve great things.   Take some time today to be grateful.      Watch the short video below to get your Monday Morning Motivation!!! The Law of Recognition Anything you fail to recognize will exit your life!!!   - Something you are not seeing is costing you!   - Humility is not a personality trait. - Humility is not intimidation. - Humility is the Recognition of What You Do Not Have. - Humility causes you to search. The proof of Humility is the Willingness to Ask Questions!   Dr. Mike Murdock 7 Laws You Must Honor to Have Uncommon Success Was this video Helpful? Hope you enjoyed it! ...

The last time most people were really celebrated was when the graduated from high school!   We live in a society now that celebrates pseudo celebrities for irrelevant achievements but ignore individuals who are actually making an impact on the world like Akon.   Click here to read a great story from theRoot.com on how Akon launched a Solar Academy that will supply electricity to 600,000,000 Africans.   Watch the short video below to get your Friday Motivation!!! The Law of Place Place matters!!!   You will succeed somewhere.   You will not succeed everywhere.   Have you found your Place? Somewhere…a territory has your name on it.   Somewhere!   Every territory is a reward from the seed of battle.   Battle is the seed for territorial order and possession.   Go where you are CELEBRATED not TOLERATED!   Dr. Mike Murdock 7 Laws You Must Honor to Have Uncommon Success Why Go Where You are Celebrated? Many ...

Do you have a fear of public speaking or are you an introverted person; like me? These three quick tips will help! Watch the short video below to learn how to prepare to give a speech that will blow your audience away. Glossophobia I did not know there was an actual term that defines the fear of public speaking as a phobia. People who suffer from glossophobia tend to freeze up in front of an audience, some may find their mouth becomes dry, some voice will get weak, and other’s body will shake. Statistics show that nearly 75% of people suffer from glossophobia. Why Do You Need to Face Your Fear? Many people would like to advance in their careers or take their entrepreneurial ventures to a higher level but the inability to stand in front of a room of people is holding them back. They allow the fear to hold them back from taking that next step. Whether you will be speaking to 500 people at your next business presentation or 5 people at your church comm...

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How will you achieve your dreams and goals in 2015?  I'll tell you H.O.W. Be HONEST with yourself to HUMBLY ask for HELP! Take every OPPORTUNITY to grow closer to your dreams! Be WILLING to put in the WORK! www.IamSuperTLC.biz